Traveling with small kids is overwhelming for new moms especially those who are traveling alone with one kid for the first-time or more than one kid, newborn baby, a lap child, toddler or a teenager – no matter what age they are at – packing for kids is a lot of work.
When you have big kids more than 5 years of age they can carry their own backpacks and toys, or pack basic travel essentials for their flight. However, if you have little ones under 4 years of age and you are traveling all by yourself then packing needs too much planning.
Regardless of what your destination is, or how long your trip is going to be, you definitely need basic essentials in your carry-on while traveling with or without kids.
In the US, airlines charge for a carry on bag for domestic flights unless you are an exclusive member of an airline. Whereas, the international flights allow you to carry two check-in bags and one carry on along with a laptop bag or a handbag.
If you are flying alone with kids, then you need to be very specific about the stuff that you have to take on the plane since you do not want to overpack.
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Carry on Essentials for moms traveling with little kids
When you have to travel you cannot skip anything that is essential while on the plane. Also, you need to have a minimalist approach as you do not want to pack on everything that you have to carry all by yourself – everywhere you go.
This post is typically to help moms with two kids under 2 years of age or traveling with a lap child and a toddler.
First thing first, you need a Backpack – light, sturdy and spacious. As kids stuff is a lot to adjust in one backpack, It shouldn’t be heavy and it should be sturdy to handle all that weight.
It would not be a good idea if your backpack suddenly refuses to stay on your shoulders.
2. Ziplock bags
Another must-have item is zip lock bags or clear bags you need to put stuff for easy recognition or staying organized for easy access.
In order to have a sane trip with kids and no issues with the TSA security scan, you have to be super organized so that you would be able to access anything out of your bags conveniently.
3. Organize diapers and wipes in a separate zip lock bag
Diapers – Decide diapers based on your own judgment. Keep a couple of extra diapers just in case if you are on a very long flight or sometimes kids get diarrhea if they pick anything from the floor and eat it or put toys in their mouths.
Wipes – You do not need a full pack of wipes for flight. Keep it light and use a travel pack based on your judgment on how much you are going to need. However, do not forget to keep separate wipes for your trip in your luggage.
Diaper disposing sacks – keep about 15 to 20 bags or more in your carry on for diaper
Diaper rash cream travel size.
Organize all of these changing station essentials in a freezer size ziplock and put it in your backpack.
Update: I just had a long vacation with kids and we had to take about 5 flights in about 15 days. It was crazy, yet fun! I had experienced a few TSA security delays. Every time it was something different.
Let me tell you what were those delay all about.
In order to avoid delays, do not forget to take out baby wipes and put them in the tray.
One more thing that was different this time was diaper rash cream. In a couple of security scans, diaper rash cream was concerning for them.
Last but not least, if you have kids snacks, baby food, packaged yogurt, make sure you take it out and put in the tray to save time and easy scan.
4. An Extra outfit
An extra outfit for your baby and an extra shirt for your self. If you have long flight hours like international flights then you might want to keep a full extra outfit for yourself too.
Staying comfy in your clothes is the best you can do to yourself and your kids while on the plane.
Just a gentle reminder: If you are going to wear a backpack or hold a baby on a flight, do not wear too many layers. You might get too exhausted or uncomfortable with so many layers on.
5. Feeding essentials
You need to have baby feeding bottles, either ready to use (for newborn babies) or formula bottles. You have to make sure all ready to use bottles have to be sealed.
Although airlines do not allow carrying liquids on a plane more than 100ml, still you can take baby formula milk and get everything scanned.
Water: You can get on the plane. You can get water from the airport after a security check. Even if you need warm water, you can always check from Starbucks, or any food place available.
Kids food: If you have kids aged more than 2 years, it highly depends on what they eat while on the plane depending on their preferences.
For domestic flights, some chips, cookies or sandwiches you can take with you.
For international flights, you can order kids’ meals. Check with your airline and see what they offer for kids.
Baby food: For toddlers or babies more than 6 months you can have packaged baby food – apple
For more sanity, you can take some Lollypops, goldfish, gummy bears, sour patch, fruit loops, etc.
Update: Have your kids’ food in a ziplock bag and once security scan starts do not forget to take that out. There is quite a chance that they might have to dig through all of your food to make sure it is not concerning in any way.
If you have a whole milk bottle for baby, make sure it is not in the packaged bottle as it is not going to be okay if there is a plastic layer on the bottle. Although it doesn’t really matter, it is just a milk bottle, but it will be much easier if you know what to do when you have to save time and stress.
Ideally, it will be much easier if you have milk in a baby’s milk bottle instead of a packaged one.
6. Kids medicines
These medicines are must for your flight, short or long, you have to carry these in your carry on.
You must discuss every medicine for your kids with your child’s pediatrician.
Update: Do not forget to take medicines out of your bag before security scans for more convenient TSA checks.
7. Plane friendly toys
You have to carry some easy, lightweight and fun toys for kids to keep them engaged. Make sure you visit the dollar store a couple of days before your flight and grab whatever you think your kids gonna enjoy while on the flight. Do not take too many, just a few and give your child one at a time.
For international flights, I highly recommend Qatar Airways. I had a very comfortable flight with my kids. The airline is going to provide you with everything. (This is not a sponsored post).
8. Blankets for long domestic flights
For long domestic flights, and during cold weather, the best thing is to take kids blankets in your carry on essentials. Although it highly depends on the kids’ age still if you have two kids under 3 years of age, you need to take everything two in number. One for each.
Even though international flights may offer blankets during the flight, so you do not need to carry an extra blanket in carry-on bags. However, if you still want to, you may carry kids’ lovey blankets with you.
No matter you are going to use everything for kids or not, you still have to carry their essentials with you, regardless. Do not stress and they are going to grow out of this stage before you even know it.